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I'm 44 years old and I've been dating a 24 year old for 5 months. At first we would just see each other about once a week but then it became more frequent during the summer.
The sex is incredible but there isn't much substance to our conversations. She took me to Vegas and I also took her there. Then for my bday she planned the entire day and made me dinner. So about 2 months ago I asked her where I stood with her and she said she liked me a lot.
I said the same. Well I then took her to the Caribbean for a week. When we got home she said she is going to be very busy with her job and finishing her masters degree so we would only be able to 24 dating 44 each other once a week. I said no problem.
That continued until about two weeks ago she told me she cared too much for me to continue because she felt she was in the way of me finding "the one" that I might marry. I told her I liked her enough that I'd wait for her. She said that would be too much pressure for her. She kept saying she was confused and that she cares so much for me but "right now" she can't give me what i'm looking for. My questions are is she telling the truth and should I reach out to her because she said she was confused and maybe if I reassure her that I'm here for her she will feel better about getting back with me.
Also am I being stupid dating a 24 year old when I'm 44? Some girls don't like to be tied in marriage, they are overall good buddies. Also some girls or even boys who date with aged people, they usually have a background for why they incline to somebody older. A history, a habit, a comfort zone, or majorly security they are seeking in their older partners. But majority are growing. And therefore you both are on different pedestals right now.
You are not stupid to date 24 years old. She is also not crazy to 24 dating 44 44 years old. Or may be you both are crazy people. I have always been comfortable with people who are older to me. But for my second marriage, i would reconsider age gaps Let her grow, give her space.
Don't worry about if she is telling a truth, treat her like your friend, a junior buddy, a cute gf, a growing individual And stay friends, as long as you want!! She is entitled to make a choice whenever she is prepared, staying her friends would always reassure her without speaking! I am looking for closure and just wondering if I contact and ask questions will she be truthful.
I'm just confused as to why she said, "she is confused and likes me so much? What does that mean? Just totally confused. She has already given you closure, and she was honest with you. Your in denial. You are on two completely different paths and if you truly love her, you will understand that she is not where you are in life and loves you as a friend or an amazing experience thus she is not the "ONE". Why would she say she is confused and cares so much about me? I've broken up with women before and never said those things. It seems like she is sending conflicting messages hence why she keeps saying she is confused.
I think she is honestly telling you she is confused, and she likes you But she is not looking for marriage. I find truth in it. She cares for you, she thinks you might be hurt, you stick to her original statement, that she is confused Don't over-read her, if she wants to marry you, she would not wait for 24 dating 44 Because i have seen young girls have a dream of getting married!
She is conflicted, and ofcourse she needs to resolve those conflicts, Give her space, no body is running ya? To add more, you shouldn't have an idea of dropping her instantly and finding a complete closure, i think you fear rejection or your experiences in situations are kicking a self defense mechanism in you. Are you afraid of something, if you are looking for complete closure, then don't read her mixed messages By the way 24 dating 44, true love can even survive friendship!
Just because she is confused at the moment, i would never lose her true friendship If she is for "marriage"!! It appears as though you and your girlfriend are at different stage of your 24 dating 44 and have conflicting goals. This is not uncommon when a year-old girl dates a guy who is You are probably already established in your career and you are probably ready to settle down and marry this girl.
She, on the other hand, thinks she has her entire life in front of her, and she probably believes that her career should come first at this stage of her life. At her age, I was pretty much the same way, and I happened to be dating 24 dating 44 man in his early 40's, too.
My situation was much easier to resolve than yours is, in that my ex-boyfriend was somewhat commitment shy because of a bad marriage, so he expected me to become pregnant with his child before proposing marriage to me. I felt insulted, as he was essentially putting the chicken before the egg, as it were. I told him that my career was very important to me and that I would never get pregnant out of wedlock. We were at an impasse, and I moved on.
Your girlfriend has different priorities from you and this probably is related to your age difference. She wants to feel free to pursue her career and she recognizes that you are ready to settle down. If she didn't recognize this in you, she wouldn't have suggested that you need 24 dating 44 find someone who is ready to marry you. It is my belief that, if she wanted to marry you, she wouldn't give you mixed messages.
She would simply tell you that she wants to marry you but that she also wants to pursue her career. Since she isn't doing this, I would probably tell her that I love her and that she should come back to you if and when she is ready to marry you. In the meantime, I believe you should tell her that you will also move on with your life and stop all communication with her. Tell her that, 24 dating 44 she should decide she wants to marry you she should contact you. But, if she doesn't feel the same way, it would be much kinder on her part to stop sending you mixed messages and let you get over her and move on with your life.
Thank you. We weren't at the "will you marry me" stage as we were basically dating casually and then I believe we both started having feelings for each other. I simply want to know why she ended it so abruptly especially considering I had just taken her the Caribbean a month before she dumped me.
If she is really confused about her feelings, how can she give you closure?
She's only 24, pretty much at the beginning of her adult life. She isn't. I just want closure about why it ended so abruptly. I slept with her and three days later she called it off. I'm confused. And now if you are asking for complete closure, it will make her more suspicious, because this man can't simply stand for what he is saying. Don't fear loss, you said it, and she should be given time. How much time? If that's an issue, you should never have sex with someone younger next time.
We never talked about marriage. Has she told you that she doesn't want to be with you and stuff, then you should move on! You should rather gracefully get the complete closure, if i am in your shoes, i would say her i love her, and would always stay friends And still she wants to go for degree, she has a life and ambitions in 24 dating 44 of her, this would come in a younger package, make sure even if she says yes to marriage, she would like to have 24 dating 44 life for her own I guess I'm not being clear. I'm simply wondering how I figure out what she meant by that. I will fully accept if she says we are at different stages but she didn't so that if why I'm confused.
After I asked her she seemed a bit distant. Can u honestly say that u wanted to continue casually dating her or make it more exclusive? Yes maybe I frightened her but either way I would like to hear it from her. Thank you for the advice 24 dating 44 I think it is very good advice. Believe it or not I'm am scared to call her for fear of rejection. This is absurd considering I'm a 44 year old man.
Any advice on why I'm feeling so fearful? Like u said, fear of rejection. No one want to be reject by the person they cared about. U said that u wanted closure so u going to have to take the risk of her rejecting u. No way around it. U know she doesn't share the same feelings as u do so don't have some high expectations that what she say will be different. Well I spoke with her and she said she cared for me and misses me but doesn't see a future for us because of our age difference.
I respect that and now I am feeling like i'll never find someone for me. I knew and know that she wasn't the right one but I'm feeling depressed and sad about not seeing her and mainly missing the sex. How do I stop romanticizing her and missing her when there wasn't really anything there to begin with? One other thing she told me was that she went on a date two days after calling it off with me. If 24 dating 44 cared so much why would she go on a date and this le me 24 dating 44 believe she was confused but over whether to go out with this new guy or continue seeing me.
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